Do What You've Always Done


6 comments posted
I agree -- blogging about

I agree -- blogging about dating puts pressure that doesn't need to be there. The same goes for some other topics too. Sometimes blogging just adds a super-public aspect that is tricky. Sometimes it's best to just talk about other things.

Posted by La Canadienne (not verified) on Sun, 07/26/2009 - 00:41
Depends on how things are

Depends on how things are going... and if they know about the blog. If there's pressure on the relationship the blog can be a good place to work out the details of solving the problems. Or at least a place to acknowledge the problems exist. It can also be a great place to brag about the sex.

Posted by Gabriel... (not verified) on Sun, 07/26/2009 - 11:38
LC: True nuff. Not like

LC: True nuff. Not like there isn't lots of other stuff going on.

Gabriel: There's no way I could date someone and not tell them about my blog. Partially because I do it under my own full name, so all they'd have to do is google me to find whatever I'd been "secretly" writing about them. I'm also uncomfortable with the notion of blogging potentially private stuff about someone without either their express permission or a veto vote.

And I'm not sure I'd be good with hashing out relationship problems on blog. The internet is too permanent, oddly enough. You write something down that you maybe kind of think and then it's like you're sure. I dunno.

Interesting to think about though.

Posted by megan on Sun, 07/26/2009 - 18:45
I am a firm believer in

I am a firm believer in changing patterns every once in a while for getting new and possibly better results... just like Jennifer said. So for what it's worth, you have my support on this one.

Speaking of support... thank you for your advice and encouragement at BOLO!

I keep meaning to ask you... Did you get a chance to read the mouse and moose books?

Posted by Woodsy (not verified) on Sun, 07/26/2009 - 21:08
I think I have much to learn

I think I have much to learn from you still, beautiful lady.

Posted by mae callen (not verified) on Sun, 07/26/2009 - 23:00
Woodsy - You were wonderful

Woodsy - You were wonderful at BOLO! You didn't need my encouragement at all. I have had a chance to get to the mouse and moose books, and enjoyed them thoroughly. I should return them to you one of these fair days. Or even one of these rainy days.

Mae - Well, I dunno about that, but I'd be happy to try and teach you.

Posted by megan on Wed, 07/29/2009 - 21:39