It Comes In Cycles


4 comments posted
Lovely post... I don't

Lovely post... I don't believe you will be alone forever...

Posted by Woodsy (not verified) on Thu, 02/12/2009 - 22:56
Thank you, Woodsy, that's

Thank you, Woodsy, that's very sweet.

It's seems pretty likely, but it's okay, really. Stings every now and again, but meh, I have a good life, and it's hard to get too sulky about that.

Posted by megan on Thu, 02/12/2009 - 23:23
Wow. You and me both sister,

Wow. You and me both sister, you and me both. every word you just wrote, they are the feelings and thoughts that have been rolling around in me lately.

Posted by Mae Callen (not verified) on Fri, 02/13/2009 - 01:39
My theory has always been

My theory has always been that if you really want to be part of a couple you will be. People who are alone are alone because they want to be. They may not fully realize it, but some viceral part of them sabotages any relationship that threatens to become permanent. They know instinctively that coupledom is not the healthiest thing for them and they find a way to avoid it even while their conscious self is still thinking it wants a partner. When full awareness eventually hits you are at peace and content and really happy and not in a "fuck you" kind of way. I'm not saying this is you, but it's something to think about. And not being attached in a monogamous, committed, couply way doesn't necessarily mean you're alone. There are many different ways to fulfill needs for love, sex and companionship aside from the conventional and somewhat unnatural pairing espoused by our Judeo-Christian society.

Posted by XUP (not verified) on Mon, 02/16/2009 - 11:23